NAME: Benjamin Hardy
CLAIM TO FAME: Benjamin is the #1 writer on Medium and has been for over two years, where his articles have accumulated 50 million combined pageviews. In that time he has built an email list of over 300,000 subscribers, and he recently wrote Willpower Doesn’t Work about how to proactively shape our environment and evolve into the person we want to become. And he’s done all of this while getting his Ph.D. from Clemson.
WHERE TO FIND HIM: On Medium, Twitter, Amazon, and his website.
Usually between 7:30-8:00 AM.
I wake up between 5:00-6:00am, get in my car, write in my journal about my goals and life. My car is a scared space where I know it will be peaceful. Eventually, the journal writing makes its way to the topics I want to write about that day. Then, after about 20-30 minutes in my journal, I go to the gym and work out. By the time I get home, I am in the mental state to create.
I am very tough on myself and the kind of person I am, but I am not hard on my writing. Rather, I believe that my writing is a reflection of me and my state. If I’m in a peak state, my writing will be good. If I’m not in that state, I don’t write. Because of this, almost everything I write sees the light of day. My wife hates that I don’t spend more time agonizing about the way I say things but I like my writing to be personal. I don’t write everyday. Probably 1-2 times per week.
I paid $197 on Jon Morrow’s online courses that taught me how to write viral headlines. I got only ten minutes into that course before I was so anxious to apply the principles that I got started with my first blog articles. I never finished the course but the investment coupled with the topic launched me into my writing career.
Second, I hired Ryan Holiday to help me write my book proposal for WILLPOWER DOESN’T WORK. Writing a book proposal was a completely foreign task for me and his guidance was invaluable.
Most of my reading is in the form of audio books with my journal close by. That way I can quickly translate how the dots connect in my mind when I hear something. I will also listen to the same book 2-3 times in a row when I like what I read.
I read a blend of non-fiction. My foundation is religious material, as a Christian, my personal development has a much deeper purpose when based in my religious beliefs. In addition, I consume psychology, medical research, books on addiction, and general self-improvement.
I don’t really have anyone I’m trying to emulate right now, but Steven R. Covey is my ultimate mentor. I can always go back to his writing and be inspired. The principles he taught are timeless and continue to guide me.
It’s not WILLPOWER at all. Willpower is the reason I didn’t start sooner.
How was I able to do it? I had no other choice. At least, that’s how I felt. I started writing online shortly after I became a foster parent of 3 kids. With the new responsibility of being a parent, I knew it was time for me to provide for them and set an example for those kids of working hard and going after your dreams.
That wasn’t enough though. Then I stated INVESTING in my writing skills. I spend $800 to get my domain benjaminhardy.com. That was a HUGE financial investment for my wife and I. We couldn’t believe we were going to spend so much money on a domain name.
When you start investing in yourself, you become committed. That’s the advice I wish I had taken 7-8 years ago. It would have gotten me moving much faster.
Most authors never learn marketing. And they don’t have what I believe to be the 3 keys to good non-fiction writing:
1. You must be a good communicator
2. You must know your subject matter really, really well (head knowledge)
3. You must have deep emotional conviction about your subject matter (heart knowledge)
You combine these 3 things and that makes for good writing. Without the emotional side, the writing feels academic and not compelling. With only the emotion, it feels purely opinionated. But when you can write in an emotional and persuasive way, and then back up what you’re saying with credible sources, then it’s very believable and convincing.
I prefer writing short-form because it’s easier. Blogs are under less scrutiny and easier to organize. When I wrote Willpower Doesn’t Work, the toughest part was not writing it, it was organizing it. I went through several drafts where the ideas were in completely different orders.
However, I prefer writing books because you can go much deeper, and I like having chapters and sections all focused on a larger idea.
But yes, my routines and different for each. I see writing articles as a hobby, and writing books like a job. It’s a lot harder to write books.
When it comes to writing articles, if I don’t get it done before 9:00 AM, it won’t get done. Life takes over. I like to get up early and avoid the distractions of the morning (phone, news, email, etc.). If I can do that well, I know that I will be done by 2:00 PM and ready to be a full time dad. I like to pick my kids up from school and spend the afternoon with them during their free-play and homework. In the evenings, I like to spend time with my wife and get to bed early. Sometimes work requires more time of me but every day in my calendar 4:00-7:00 PM is blocked off for my family so they can count on me then. We have to put first things first. Relationships are first. First, my relationship with my family, my friends, my church, and then my readers.
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